When one falls in love they are oblivious to the fact until the one that they love has gone. The second time someone is in love they get so confused on weather they really are in love or not. The second time is where you have more potential. Love is a very strong word, but like is so puny. So what do we use if the feeling is in-between? I think im in love again, but I also have my doubts. Its the second time, so that would be both good and bad. The dilemma is what if you dont know if they love you back? You cant continue, because you cant ask. For the reasons of not wanting to feel rejection and the fear that they might love you too.If you know the definition of love that wont help much. I have read the definition, to me its just nonsense. Love is an unexplainable force that runs through your heart, how it occurs is beyond explanation. What makes us love someone or something? You may think you have a logical explanation for this feeling, but when you think you have one go over it in your head a few times and you will realize that it either is impossible, makes no sense, or there are big gaps in the explanation. This is true...try it, I dare you to understand true love.